Knowledge Partner

Knowledge of your partner's wants and needs is critical to a healthy and loving relationship. Keep in mind that your partners wants and needs have probably evolved over time. What was important in the past may or may not be important now. The following assessment is designed to evaluate how well you and your partner know one another today.

Answer the questions below and then ask your spouse how many questions you answered correctly. Calculate your score and compare it with the assessment scale below.

Correct Incorrect
1. What is your partner's favorite food?Answer:
2. What is your partner's favorite color?Answer:
3. What does your partner do at work? Be specific
("he's a business man" isn't enough, give specifics,duties).Answer:
4. What is your partner's idea of a relaxing day off?Answer:
5. What is your partner's current favorite restaurant?Answer:
6. What is your partner's dream job?
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7. What did your partner want to be when he or she was a child?Answer:
8. What is your partner's top goal in life?Answer:
9. What does your partner see as his or her greatest
accomplishment thus far?
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10. What hobby or activity would your partner love to pursue?Answer:
11. What is your partner's favorite trait about you?Answer:
12. What is your partner's favorite sport or hobby?Answer:
13. What kind of car would your partner prefer to be driving?Answer:
14. What is your partner's idea of a wonderful "date night" for the two of you?Answer:
15. What person in your partner's extended family are they closest with?Answer:
16. What celebrity would your partner love to meet?Answer:
17. What is your partner's favorite holiday?Answer:
18. At what age would your partner like to retire? Answer:
19. What city would your partner like to be living in other than the one that you currently reside in?
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20. What is your partner's favorite movie? Answer:
21. What foreign country would your partner love to travel to? Answer:
22. What is your partner's favorite television show? Answer:
23. What is your partner's favorite season? Answer:
24. On a scale of 1-5, how important are the words "I love you" to your partner?
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25. On a scale of 1-5, how appreciated by you does your partner feel? Answer:
26. On a scale of 1-5, how important is sex to your partner? Answer:
Assessment Score:

ASSESSMENT SCALE

0-12: ON THE BRINK. Like many couples, you have drifted apart from one another and have become strangers.

13-20: HOLDING STEADY. If you're trying to avoid the brink, you will need to make some needed changes.

21-26: FAR FROM THE BRINK. Congratulations! You really know each other well.

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